Every girl needs a Mell in her life. There are so many times in our life when we're so blind to what's really going on or what we're really doing. (we can be blinded by a lot of things, but usually it's our stubborn - hard - headed - of - course - I'm - always - right - and - I - know - what's - best nature). There needs to be someone out there who you trust and who you know always looks out for your best interest and who will be completely honest with you even if it's the last thing you want to hear. Those who have a Mell may get upset initially, but it will be for the better in the long run. Those who don't have a Mell... well... good luck.